What does it mean to have sexual dreams about men other than my husband?Posted on June 6, 2010
At least once a week I have a sexual dream (not always sex, but major flirting, kissing, etc) about men other than my husband. These are actual men that I know. I NEVER dream about my husband. I love him with all of my heart, but our sex life isn’t great. Do these dreams mean anything?
I am going to make an educated guess that you are very troubled by the lack of communication that is happening between you and your spouse.
Your "dreams" are, most likely, a reflection of this disconnection. Dreams are thoughts we have while asleep. They, in themselves, are neither good or bad; however, they can be meaningful at a personal level.
Don’t misjudge yourself because they occur. You haven’t acted on your thoughts.
If you can, discuss your overall connection concerns with your spouse. (Probably best to keep the dreams a private thing.) Try to find out what is causing a divide.
In your communication steer clear of argument and focus on solution. Do your best to first hear your spouse’s concerns and hopefully, this may lead to him hearing yours.
In the end, you may best find that working with a marriage counselor will help redevelop the bond that will lead to satisfaction with the relationship for both.
Good sex in a relationship is an indicator of the satisfaction level of both parties.
Best of luck
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