At least once a week I have a sexual dream (not always sex, but major flirting, kissing, etc) about men other than my husband. These are actual men that I know. I NEVER dream about my husband. I love him with all of my heart, but our sex life isn’t great. Do these dreams mean anything?
I am going to make an educated guess that you are very troubled by the lack of communication that is happening between you and your spouse.
Your "dreams" are, most likely, a reflection of this disconnection. Dreams are thoughts we have while asleep. They, in themselves, are neither good or bad; however, they can be meaningful at a personal level.
Don’t misjudge yourself because they occur. You haven’t acted on your thoughts.
If you can, discuss your overall connection concerns with your spouse. (Probably best to keep the dreams a private thing.) Try to find out what is causing a divide.
In your communication steer clear of argument and focus on solution. Do your best to first hear your spouse’s concerns and hopefully, this may lead to him hearing yours.
In the end, you may best find that working with a marriage counselor will help redevelop the bond that will lead to satisfaction with the relationship for both.
Good sex in a relationship is an indicator of the satisfaction level of both parties.
Best of luck
You are a normal, functional human being.
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Possibly your dreams are trying to make you feel how you want to feel with your husband but are not.
Maybe you are starting to wonder what it would be like with someone else or if it would be different with someone else, or maybe your mind is just trying to show you how you want to feel. So why not go ahead and try to evoke those feelings with your husband.
Chances are he could have issues and be scared of opening up to you fully (yes even after decades I’m sure that’s the case!) so who knows…take a chance on something new and exciting (dance, go for a midnight walk on a beach, etc.) and see what happens.
Dreams like that symbolize what is missing in your life I think. Only you can really interpret what those feelings mean.
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sure they do!! it means that you’ve unfulfilled sexual needs, & you’re not gettng them from your husband, on one hand you loves your husband & do not wants to hurt him, on the other you have your unfulfilled sexual needs, your subconcious desires is messing with you!! plus you’re not getting the attentions you so sorely wanted, he’s been neglecting you lately, taking you for granted, not paying you enough attention, things have becoming routine, & gotten into a rut, this is a common thing that happens to everyone after the romance fades with the passing of times, & the both of you settles into your daily activities. it’s up to both of you to ‘spice’ up your life(sex) talk to him or continue to dream
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nothing. It is natural and normal. As long as it stays in the dreams. It is just your curious unconscious mind doing a little exploring -
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Sure you are horney and you want to try someone else BADLY.
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I am going to make an educated guess that you are very troubled by the lack of communication that is happening between you and your spouse.
Your "dreams" are, most likely, a reflection of this disconnection. Dreams are thoughts we have while asleep. They, in themselves, are neither good or bad; however, they can be meaningful at a personal level.
Don’t misjudge yourself because they occur. You haven’t acted on your thoughts.
If you can, discuss your overall connection concerns with your spouse. (Probably best to keep the dreams a private thing.) Try to find out what is causing a divide.
In your communication steer clear of argument and focus on solution. Do your best to first hear your spouse’s concerns and hopefully, this may lead to him hearing yours.
In the end, you may best find that working with a marriage counselor will help redevelop the bond that will lead to satisfaction with the relationship for both.
Good sex in a relationship is an indicator of the satisfaction level of both parties.
Best of luck
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You can find a therapist in your area here:
http://www.therapistlocator.net/
Your dreams about men other than your husband presents the opportunity to speak with him about your need for more affection and stimuli, some women have actually thought it to mean they should be with someone other than their husband and that is not ( in my understanding) what the dream is trying to say for you.
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